getting 0ver a crush.?!
October 4th, 2007 by ninaysulat>para sa may mga crush 0ut der.. haha.. share k0 lang it0ng nabasa k0..
let’s face reality..
King s0l0m0n, 1 0f da wisest men wh0 ever lived, fell desperately in l0ve wid a girl hu did n0t return his feelings. He p0ured up0n her s0me 0f da m0st beautiful p0etry ever written, telling her she was "beautiful like da full m00n, pure lyk da g0lden sun"- and g0t absolutely n0where wid her.
nevertheless, S0l0m0n eventually quit his attempts t0 win her 0ver. h0w can y0u, t00, regain c0ntr0l 0f y0ur feelings.? "he dat is trusting his 0wn heart is stupid" (proverbs 28:26)This is particularly true when y0u are caught up in a r0mantic fantasy.. "he dat is walking in wisd0m is da 1 dat will escape." dis means seing things da way dey are.
Furtherem0re, has da pers0n u lyk thus far sh0wn any interest in y0u at all? if n0t, is der any real reas0n t0 believe dat things will change in da near future.? 0r are y0u simply reading r0mantic interest int0 inn0cent w0rds and acti0ns on his or her part? A Y0UNG GURL CAN HUMILATE HERSELF BY AGRESSIVELY PURSUING S0ME0NE WH0 SIMPLY IS N0T INTERESTED.!
Besides, wat would y0u d0 if da pers0n actually returned y0ur affecti0ns.? Are y0u ready f0r da resp0nsibility of marriage? if n0t, then "rem0ve vexation fr0m y0ur heart" by refusing t0 dwell on fantasy. there is a "tym to l0ve" and dat myt be years later wen y0u are 0lder. (ecclesiastes 3:8; 11:10
"GETTING HIM 0R HER 0FF Y0UR MIND"
Admittedly, all da reas0ning in da w0rld d0es n0t entirely erase h0w y0u feel. but y0u can av0id feeding da pr0blem. READING STEAMY N0VELS, WATCHING TV L0VE ST0RIES, 0R JUST LISTENING T0 CERTAIN KINDS 0F MUSIC CAN W0RSEN Y0UR FEELINGS 0F L0NELINESS.. s0 refuse t0 dwell on situation. "where there is n0 w00d, the fire g0es 0ut." (pr0verbs 26:20)
"keep busy," exhorts teen writer Esther David0witz. TAKE UP A H0BBY, D0 S0ME EXCERCISE, STUDY A LANGUAGE, BEGIN A BIBLE RESEARCH PR0JECT. staying enggrosed in useful activities can ease the withdrawal symptoms quite a bit.
Getting over a crush is n0t easy. But with the passage 0f tym, da pain will subside. Y0u will have learned much ab0ut y0urself and y0ur feelings, and y0u will be better prepared t0 deal with REAL L0VE sh0uld it c0me in the future.!
..hayz.
dis is f0r every0ne especially gurls..
.awts.
.mahirap lumim0t.
.per0 darating ung tym makakalimutan m0 rin yun..
.keep busy.
.f0cus 0n s0mething 0r s0me0ne imp0rtant.
.maybe dahil dyan sa "crush" na yan e nakakalimutan na ang mga bagay bagay.. o di kaya may c0mmunicati0n gap na sa bahay..
.try t0 spare y0ur attenti0n in y0ur family and y0u will never ever regret trying it, of course y0ur family will never ever deprived the l0ve y0u really need.
.and i kn0w…
IN G0D’S TIME, THAT "SPECIAL S0ME0NE" will c0me t0 y0u in the m0st surprising way.. all y0u have t0 d0 is wait. wait. wait.
G0d bless t0 all 0f y0u.! have a gud l0velife.